I don’t care how many books, magazines, poems, soliloquies you may read, there are challenges that you will encounter, as a parent, where you won’t find a quick answer by doing a google search.
Guide them and teach them about self expression. I love to dress how I feel and there have been times where I’ve “forgotten” to allow her to do that same. She doesn’t always want to wear what I pick. She doesn’t always want to listen to the music I want to listen to. She doesn’t always want to read the books